If the rules are just suggestions, there's no point in having them as they're no longer rules. Are speed limits mere suggestions?
Yes, I told a member "there's the door" because that applies to everyone. Don't like the way WSC works? There's the door. Nobody is keeping you here. There are certainly aspects of WSC I don't like, which is why I'm on other forums as well. Saying "oh my god, this site sucks, I'm never coming back" is the internet equivalent of slamming the door on your parents and yelling "I'm running away" expecting them to come after you. We're all adults here and if someone wants to play the passive aggressive, prima donna game, I'll gladly pull the rug out from under them.